Posted tagged ‘Books’

She doesn’t love to read

August 13, 2009

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I find it irritating, ironic and down-right unjust that my own daughter does not love reading. After all, I “know” literacy and since birth have done the following things which I’ll list for edification purposes. (Take notes but be warned–does not work for all children; in particular, my eldest daughter.) And, p.s. aren’t introverts suppose to love books?

* read to her daily A LOT of books and 3 books at bedtime

* take regular trips to the library and check out as many books as we can carry, read them all in no particular order

* model reading my own books and make time for reading during the day

* have excessive amounts of books at various reading levels and on various topics – seriously, it’s excessive

* reward with books

* got her a special reading headlamp for bed-time reading

* limit television — none during the school week and only limited on Saturdays

* listen to books on tape in the car, for quiet time, and just for fun

Okay, you get the point. A+B=C, right? If only.

(I will mention that since birth, she’s never loved, loved, loved books like my other child.  In fact, I use to read mostly at meal time because it was the only time I could get her to sit still for the length of a story.)

Here are my demands desires.

  • I want her to grab a book and read until she’s called to dinner.
  • I want her to talk about what she’s reading as if it were real.
  • I want her to look to books for information she wants to learn.
  • I want an epiphany.

She is only seven.  It will click one day, right?

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It’s starting younger

May 15, 2009

We hear a lot about one girl – I’ll call her Madge.

“Madge said I was a looser.  Madge called me a jerk.  Madge . . . ”

Honestly, I think that it’s not bullying so much as the kid is just a snot.  But, never the less, my daughter must learn to deal with twits or bullies.   So, we’ve read many books on the subject & I’ve made a list of favorites.

Talking helps.

Reading helps.

Summer vacation will help even more.  Yea!

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Also, I think martial arts might be a good idea one day . . .

a short list of books with introverted characters

January 31, 2009

Introverts in Picture Books

Cherry and Olive by Benjamin Lacombe

The Shy Little Kitten by Cathleen Schurr

The Story of Ferdinand by Munro Leaf

Which Would You Rather Be by William Steig

Shy Charles by Rosemary Wells

Introverts in Chapter Books

Franny K. Stein books by Jim Benton

Anne of Green Gables by Lucy Maud Montgomery

Evan’s Corner by Elizabeth Starr Hill

The View from Saturday by E.L. Konigsburg

Bridge to Terabithia by Katherine Paterson

A Wrinkle in Time by Madeline L’Engle

The 39 Clues by Rick Riordan

Chasing Redbird by Sharon Creech